Archive | January, 2010

Hello world!? (this is the inspiring title wordpress started me off with?)

30 Jan
Punta Cana DR

Latest photo!

 And so it begins!

I always try to plan everything – you can imagine – my life, my career, my marriage – and even my new blog. So before I type up some witty “about me” column, I decided to break my usual routine and blurt something out without concern.  

First off, I love my life, my career and my marriage! No kidding! So much so that I have to get everything I think about on a daily basis out – and this will now be my voice…  

I’ve never written before – nor do I consider myself someone who could write anything interesting in the first place! :) But! I know that what my husband and I have is different. Marriage in today’s world is like a sleeping dragon – everyone knows it’s ugly head is going to wake up one day and some of us will run while some of us will stay and fight.  Marriage is not love. Love is not marriage. Why do we confuse this and wallow in disappointment?  

This blog is not intended to scrutinize or even attempt to tell people what marriage is. We have successfully reached our four year mark and with each passing year – we sadly see so many friends call it quits :(. But with resolve we will beat the odds dooming us to divorce. We will be happy and married at the same time! Searched out some blogs on marriage and I found one chronicling their divorce (wooh!), tons on “open” marriage, and a couple of wives daydreaming. Well… this wife gets pissed quite often actually. We both drive each other mad – madly insane and madly in love.  

So – to close it off. Enjoy – or not – it doesn’t really matter :) To those who join the resistance – we are beside you every step.  

the Mrs.